{"id":1670,"date":"2014-04-23T16:11:45","date_gmt":"2014-04-23T21:11:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.intermezzomontreal.com\/?post_type=blogue&#038;p=1670"},"modified":"2024-02-22T15:01:47","modified_gmt":"2024-02-22T20:01:47","slug":"how-long-should-i-wait-to-have-sex","status":"publish","type":"blogue","link":"https:\/\/www.intermezzomontreal.com\/en\/blogue\/how-long-should-i-wait-to-have-sex\/","title":{"rendered":"How long should I wait to have sex? -  Intermezzo Montr\u00e9al"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>How long should I wait to have sex? At Intermezzo Montreal, our matchmakers and life coaches often address this topic with clients.<\/p>\n<p>We recommend to our members that all first dates are used simply to meet and learn a bit about the other person, and last no longer than 60 minutes. We believe that it\u2019s better to leave hungry for more rather than to stretch out a first encounter, even if it\u2019s going extremely well!\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>We have been collecting feedback from dates \u00a0for over 18 years and we\u2019ve concluded that \u201cdoing the deed\u201d on the first or second date is not necessarily the best course of action if you\u2019re thinking long term.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Ladies, keep in mind that he probably prefers being turned down at the very beginning! Yes, he wants to sleep with you but he also likes being told NO! It may be contradictory but it is the truth. Chemistry between two people can be extraordinary but it\u2019s important to advance slowly and surely, but most importantly, intelligently!\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Let us know what you think! E-mail <a href=\"mailto:jp@www.intermezzomontreal.com\">jp@www.intermezzomontreal.com<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Joan S. Paiement<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Joan S. 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