{"id":1747,"date":"2014-05-07T16:14:05","date_gmt":"2014-05-07T21:14:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.intermezzomontreal.com\/?post_type=blogue&#038;p=1747"},"modified":"2024-02-22T15:27:53","modified_gmt":"2024-02-22T20:27:53","slug":"chasing-a-man","status":"publish","type":"blogue","link":"https:\/\/www.intermezzomontreal.com\/en\/blogue\/chasing-a-man\/","title":{"rendered":"Chasing a man, is it a good idea? - Intermezzo Montreal"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Since the dawn of time, men have been hunters, providers, and protectors of their territory. That begs the question: does the male hunter want to be hunted by a woman? Based on numerous conversations that I\u2019ve had with some of our male members, the answer is a resounding NO. Chasing a man is not the solution to getting a man to be interested in you.<\/p>\n<p>Men are naturally flattered upon receiving attention from a woman, but in most cases where the woman is running after the man- the feelings of attraction aren\u2019t reciprocal.\u00a0\u00a0Ladies, are you trying to hunt down a man?<\/p>\n<p>\u00a01)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Do you call him if you\u2019ve heard good news regarding him? (Note: he didn\u2019t call you to tell you)<\/p>\n<p>2)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Do you call him when you haven\u2019t heard from him in a while?<\/p>\n<p>3)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Do you e-mail, text message, and \u201clike\u201d things on his Facebook page?<\/p>\n<p>4)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Do you communicate with his friends?<\/p>\n<p>5)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Do you question him on how he feels about your \u201crelationship?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0He can pretend to be happy, interested, and enthusiastic about the attention you\u2019re giving him. He can accompany you to events and outings that you invite him to. You will never, however, know how he really feels about you until you let him assume his \u2018natural\u2019 role. You think you\u2019ve found the one? Don\u2019t run after him! If he doesn\u2019t run after you, accept that the right guy is waiting to meet you elsewhere. Maybe right here at Intermezzo Montreal! Oh... and guys, all the great girls that you want to meet are also here at Intermezzo! - Give us a call!<\/p>\n<p>Sarah Papadomanolakis<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Since the dawn of time, men have been hunters, providers, and protectors of their territory. That begs the question: does the male hunter want to be hunted by a woman? Based on numerous conversations that I\u2019ve had with some of our male members, the answer is a resounding NO. 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