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As a matchmaker, I know that women often share every detail of their dating or matchmaking journey with their girlfriends — while men tend to keep it far more private. But is it really a good idea to bring your friends along for the ride? Definitely not — and here’s why: When you invite friends […]

Many women tell me: “ Because of my success, I scare men away.”This idea comes up often… and it’s frequently reinforced by their female friends. Wanting to be supportive, these friends always find a flattering explanation for why their friend rarely gets a second date: “It’s because you intimidate them”, “You’re too smart for them”, […]

As a professional matchmaker, I hear a lot of unique preferences, deal-breakers, and must-haves. But lately, one request keeps surfacing more and more:“Please don’t match me with someone who’s addicted to social media.” It’s not just a passing trend—it’s a reflection of how our relationship with technology, attention, and connection has shifted over time. For […]

As a matchmaker, I often meet people who are attracted to partners significantly older or younger than they are — sometimes with 15, 20, or even 25 years between them. In most cases, this kind of request reveals a very short-term vision of what a relationship should be. Let’s be frank: relationships with a large […]

Losing a loved one changes everything. The grieving process is a deeply personal journey, marked by memories, silence, sorrow—but also, at times, by hope. Starting a new chapter doesn’t mean forgetting; it means accepting that life continues—differently.If today, the idea of sharing your life again, of laughing, talking, loving, is beginning to take root in […]

As a matchmaker, my clients often ask me if it’s more difficult to meet someone when you have children. My answer is clear: no, not at all! Having children is a normal reality at a certain age, and there are many people in similar situations.At Intermezzo, we don’t see parenting as an obstacle, but as […]

In the modern era, online dating has revolutionized the way people meet and connect. With a plethora of dating apps and websites at our fingertips, singles can now browse through endless profiles, each offering the promise of potential romance. However, the abundance of choices can sometimes have the opposite effect, leading to what psychologists call […]

1. Self-Presentation 2. Conversation Style 3. Behavior and Attitude In conclusion, your matchmaker can give you feedback on comments received by your dates. This is invaluable information that can allow you to have an idea of how you are perceived and help you to make ajustments to insure that those second dates keep coming!

Our matchmaking services go beyond just introductions. We aim to support you holistically, aligning every aspect of your presentation with the success you seek in your romantic life. Let’s enhance your strengths and address any areas needing improvement. Be prepared to meet the right person with confidence.

Swiping fatigue is a term that describes the exhaustion or frustration people experience from the repetitive action of swiping through profiles on dating apps. This phenomenon can lead to a sense of burnout and disillusionment with the online dating process. Several factors contribute to swiping fatigue: To combat swiping fatigue, individuals might consider using the […]

More and more users of dating apps are using AI to enhance their profiles – not only content but photos too. Misrepresentation has always been rampant on dating profiles (unrealistic photos, lying about age, etc). Thanks to AI and online photo enhancement services, more and more dating profiles don’t represent reality which leads to many […]

In an era where online dating has become the norm, concerns about privacy are increasingly coming to the forefront. With a staggering 80% of dating apps such as Tinder, Bumble, Hinge etc. sharing user data with third parties, it’s essential to understand the implications for users and explore ways to protect personal information. The Scope […]

I am excited to announce that a new gift that was given to the Montreal Children’s Hospital by Intermezzo Montreal. A priority need for the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit this ‘ Tecotherm NEO‘ is a total body cooling and warming unit which will allow babies suffering from after birth asphixia to survive and lead normal lives. We […]

You’re a single man. Hence, you think that the ideal way to meet is to go online and sign up on all of those dating sites. It’s so easy, you can do it in the comfort of your own home, nobody knows (in reality the whole world knows!). As a result, you spend your evenings […]

You are really anxious about an upcoming first date. You arrive face to face and your heart skips a beat! Wow! You can’t wait to sit down and start talking face to face. Here are 3 things to ABSOLUTELY avoid during this first encounter if you’re hoping for a second date. 1- Talking about your […]

Finding love at Christmas – what a wonderful gift to offer oneself! If you are single why not get things going before the end of the year. The holidays are an excellent time to come and meet one of our matchmakers and get the ball rolling – in a relaxed and joyful atmosphere you can […]

So many people complain to their matchmaker that their introductions are not ready for a relationship. Truth is, people are not always honest when breaking up and here are the 3 most common excuses for breaking up that we hear.

In an age where dating websites and applications crowd the internet what explains that there are more singles than ever? Our theory is that laziness has a lot to do with it! Yes! Singles have become lazy and technology is the culprit.  Instead of spending time in the real world they spend hours glued to […]

Many single men and women looking for a life partner on  so-called free dating websites  have used dating applications such as Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, POF, Elite singles and many others. After signing up and answering a bunch of questions, matches are produced based on an algorithm and submitted to the users.  For example, since 2000, […]

In order to find a soulmate, more and more single men understand it is worth investing in professional matchmaking services. This trend that originated in the United States and reached England, France and many European countries, progresses at a rapid pace each year all over the world. We must note that the number of singles […]

Health and love, two things that we strongly believe in at Intermezzo. Every day we work for our professional members who are busy and don’t have the time to find a life partner. It is pure joy and satisfaction that we feel when one of our clients calls to say that he or she has […]

The Internet is flooded with articles and comments describing the frustrations dating websites members experience. Some are hilarious, others are pathetic and most are discouraging let’s be honest. Here is an excerpt from an article recently found on Mitsou’s website that really speaks for itself and summarizes the situation well. “After I decided (to register […]

The recent troubles of a Canadian dating site, now made famous thanks to the actions of some Web pirates, are causing many to ask just what is this industry hiding from us. Among other things, this sad saga tells us that the site hosted many, many more male profiles than female; an impressive proportion of […]

  A major daily recently published a short piece on millionaire bachelors looking for true love, who were willing to take unusual steps to find it. According to the article, locating that soul sister is worth a great deal since, like the rare pearl, true love is not easy to find. Intermezzo has looked into […]

It so happens that matchmaking is still the surest way of meeting a person with whom you have a genuine affinity. Even today, when so many ways of connecting people exist, the simplest, quickest and most pleasant of them all is to be introduced by someone you know. How great it would be to meet […]